Well...we're almost 1 month since DTE!!! I think we're going to celebrate each month with candles on a cake - really any excuse to eat cake is a good one around here!!!
I have been feeling very led to pray for Ellie's transition....I can't even imagine how hard it would/will be for a 2 year old to leave all that she's ever known & leave with these people she's never met. She has no idea how long we've loved her!!! Please, please, please, join us in praying for an easy transition for our little one - and all the other little ones out there!!
Here's an excerpt from the blog of one of our Agency's families that is in ET right now picking up their 2 year old daughter....
A short while later it was time to go back to the guest home [where they're staying]. As soon as we began loading up the van [to leave the transition home], Berhanesh began to cry. We totally expected this. For the entire 30 minutes van ride back to the guest home, she cried and wailed the most pitiful cry. She said the same word over and over. Our guide said she was crying out for her nanny. As you can imagine, Tulio and I were both in tears, joining our daughter in the grieving process. Our hearts were breaking for her, not knowing exactly all she has lost. When we got to our room, we pulled out every toy and piece of food we could to help distract and begin to build some trust. Playing worked for awhile, then the grieving would began again. A deep, wounded cry…none I have ever seen or heard. After about an hour, Tulio and I just continued praying over her and we put her in between us and just hugged. She fought and cried as we told her over and over that we loved her and we would never leave her. We made a major breakthrough! Praise the Lord!
In the midst of this we can only lift Berhanesh & our little one up to THE healer, THE comforter, THE dryer of all tears!
O Lord, please just lay your hands on our little Ellie right now. Help her to know that you have amazing plans for her! Plans to prosper her and not to harm her - plans to give her HOPE and a FUTURE! We long for the day when we can dry her tears & hold her close. Please, help her to know who we are. Help her to know how much she is loved by us - but even more by YOU!!! Please keep her safe, and warm, and healthy!!! Please protect her little heart through all these changes....hold her close to you dear Lord!!!
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Why Ethiopia???
• One in six children die before their fifth birthday
• One in ten children die before their first birthday
• 44% of the population of Ethiopia is under 15 years old
• 60% of children in Ethiopia are stunted because of malnutrition
• The median age in Ethiopia is 17.8 years
• 1.5 million people are infected with AIDS (6th highest in the world)
• 720,000 children have been orphaned by AIDS alone
•There are 4.6 million orphans in Ethiopia and the country is twice the size of Texas
• Per capita, Ethiopia receives less aid than any country in Africa
• Drought struck the country from 2000-2002 (first year no crops, second year no seeds, third year no animals)
• Half the children in Ethiopia will never attend school. 88% will never attend secondary school
• Coffee prices (Ethiopia’s only major export) fell 40-60% from 1998-2002
• Ethiopia’s doctor to children ratio is 1 to 24,000
• One in ten children die before their first birthday
• 44% of the population of Ethiopia is under 15 years old
• 60% of children in Ethiopia are stunted because of malnutrition
• The median age in Ethiopia is 17.8 years
• 1.5 million people are infected with AIDS (6th highest in the world)
• 720,000 children have been orphaned by AIDS alone
•There are 4.6 million orphans in Ethiopia and the country is twice the size of Texas
• Per capita, Ethiopia receives less aid than any country in Africa
• Drought struck the country from 2000-2002 (first year no crops, second year no seeds, third year no animals)
• Half the children in Ethiopia will never attend school. 88% will never attend secondary school
• Coffee prices (Ethiopia’s only major export) fell 40-60% from 1998-2002
• Ethiopia’s doctor to children ratio is 1 to 24,000
Round 2!!!
Nov 3, 2010 - Decide to adopt through CCI
Nov 9 - Contact Home Study Agency
Nov 16 - Decide to adopt B & B
Nov 18 - 1st meeting for Home Study - $1700
Nov 22 - send in application to CCI with $250 application fee
Dec 11 - we've been approved to adopt through CCI!
Dec 13 - sent in contract & $5800 - $5200 agency fee, $100 home study review fee, $500 humanitarian aid fee
Jan 24, 2011 - realized we need NEW birth certificates and marriage certificates - $122.50 to have them overnighted!!!
Jan 26 - spent $16.15 to express mail Dossier cover sheet & Power of Attorney to Olympia for AUTHENTICATION with $30 for processing
Jan 27 - received new birth & marriage certificates!!!
Jan 29 - received notarized copy of home study
Jan 31 - spent $16.15 to express mail I600a application to USCIS with $890 to process our application to bring an orphan into the US
Feb 2 - spent $16.15 to overnight our DOSSIER to The Assistant Stork in VA who will courier it through the State Dept & The Ethiopian Embassy - sent checks for $80 to Stork, $16 to State Dept, and $$189.60 to Embassy
Feb 2 - priority mailed 2 copies of our Dossier to CCI with a check for the first half of our country fee - $8500
Mar 1 - our case is submitted to the Ethiopian court
Mar 18 - FINGERPRINTED for our USCIS clearance
Mar 24 - received court date of May 20th!!!!
Mar 30 - 171h arrived!
Apr 12 - plane tickets purchased! $1372 each - what a BARGAIN!
May 14 - receive news our court date has been canceled....we travel anyway
May 26 - able to give our consent to the ET courts
Jun 1 - travel home
Jul 25 - passed court in ET - they're OURS!!!
Jul 26 - paid the 2nd half of the in-country fee - $8,500
Aug 11 - submitted to Embassy
Sept 12 - Embassy requests interview with birthmom
Oct 11 - Reschedule interview to Oct 25 due to car trouble
Oct 25 - We're CLEARED!
Oct 26 - Given Embassy interview date of Nov 2nd
Oct 27 - Tickets purchased, 1 adult & 2 children - $2800
Oct 31 - leave for ETHIOPIA!
Nov 4 - check out of hotel - $280
Nov 5 - return HOME!
Total so far: $31,878 and worth EVERY penny!
Nov 9 - Contact Home Study Agency
Nov 16 - Decide to adopt B & B
Nov 18 - 1st meeting for Home Study - $1700
Nov 22 - send in application to CCI with $250 application fee
Dec 11 - we've been approved to adopt through CCI!
Dec 13 - sent in contract & $5800 - $5200 agency fee, $100 home study review fee, $500 humanitarian aid fee
Jan 24, 2011 - realized we need NEW birth certificates and marriage certificates - $122.50 to have them overnighted!!!
Jan 26 - spent $16.15 to express mail Dossier cover sheet & Power of Attorney to Olympia for AUTHENTICATION with $30 for processing
Jan 27 - received new birth & marriage certificates!!!
Jan 29 - received notarized copy of home study
Jan 31 - spent $16.15 to express mail I600a application to USCIS with $890 to process our application to bring an orphan into the US
Feb 2 - spent $16.15 to overnight our DOSSIER to The Assistant Stork in VA who will courier it through the State Dept & The Ethiopian Embassy - sent checks for $80 to Stork, $16 to State Dept, and $$189.60 to Embassy
Feb 2 - priority mailed 2 copies of our Dossier to CCI with a check for the first half of our country fee - $8500
Mar 1 - our case is submitted to the Ethiopian court
Mar 18 - FINGERPRINTED for our USCIS clearance
Mar 24 - received court date of May 20th!!!!
Mar 30 - 171h arrived!
Apr 12 - plane tickets purchased! $1372 each - what a BARGAIN!
May 14 - receive news our court date has been canceled....we travel anyway
May 26 - able to give our consent to the ET courts
Jun 1 - travel home
Jul 25 - passed court in ET - they're OURS!!!
Jul 26 - paid the 2nd half of the in-country fee - $8,500
Aug 11 - submitted to Embassy
Sept 12 - Embassy requests interview with birthmom
Oct 11 - Reschedule interview to Oct 25 due to car trouble
Oct 25 - We're CLEARED!
Oct 26 - Given Embassy interview date of Nov 2nd
Oct 27 - Tickets purchased, 1 adult & 2 children - $2800
Oct 31 - leave for ETHIOPIA!
Nov 4 - check out of hotel - $280
Nov 5 - return HOME!
Total so far: $31,878 and worth EVERY penny!
Our Adoption Timeline!
Nov 10, 08 - Sent application to America World & $250 application fee
Dec 10, 08 - Sent first program payment fee of $1350 to AWAA.
Dec 22, 08 - Accepted into the Ethiopia Program at AWAA.
Jan 7, 09 - Requested birth certificates & marriage certificate....sent $60 (? can't remember exact amt!) to State of Wa & Or for these documents.
Jan 15, 09 - paid $95 for the online Hague Compliance training
Jan 21, 09 - Matt & Jill physicals and fingerprinting...$20 for fingerprints....sent fingerprints with $30 to FBI for
background check.
Jan 21, 09 - TB test for everyone :) yeah! $16 each.
Feb 18, 09 - sent $1800 for homestudy & $1050 for post adoption reports.
Feb 19, 09 - first meeting with the social worker doing the homestudy
Feb 23, 09 - Jill's 1:1 interview with social worker for homestudy
Mar 1, 09 - Matt's 1:1 interview with social worker & home inspection for homestudy
Mar 2, 09 - sent $30 to California for the background check for the homestudy
April 16, 09 - final meeting with social worker for completion of homestudy
April 22, 09 - over-nighted I600A paperwork to social worker who included notarized copy of HOMESTUDY (it's DONE!!!) and over-nighted I600A & Homestudy to USCIS - with $870
Apr 30,09 - had all paperwork notarized - for FREE thanks SUSIE! Over-nighted certification paperwork to Olympia with $30.
May 1, 09 - received notification from USCIS that they'd rcvd our paperwork and would be sending us our fingerprinting appt in the next few days!!!!
May 3 - paid $70 for our home study social workers travel expenses.
May 4 - we have our fingerprinting appointment!!! It's set for May 27th....but I'm hoping to see if we can get in earlier - of course!
May 5 - no chance to get an earlier fingerprinting appt :(
May 7 - WOW! Our paperwork came back from Olympia already!!! Now we're just waiting on the I-171!
May 27 - Fingerprints DONE!!!
June 2 - Matt's fingerprints didn't go thru, he has to go back and have them redone :(
June 4 - Matt's fingerprints are redone - pray they go thru this time!!!
June 18 - spent $20 and 3o minutes making 3 copies of the Dossier
June 20 - received our I-171H
June 22 - overnighted Dossier to AWAA with $7500...of which $1000 will be refunded when we do our 3, 6, and 12 month post-placement visits
June 26 - DTE!!!
July 2 - Dossier arrives in Addis Ababa, ET
July 26 - 1 month DTE
Aug 24 - Amend request to include HIV+ child
Aug 26 - 2 months DTE
Sep 16 - Sent $450 to AWAA to update Home study to include HIV+
Sep 26 - 3 months DTE
Oct 6 - Referral Call
Oct 8- Sent in referral acceptance & $5435
Nov 11 - received first pics of Ellie since her referral!!! She is sooooo BEAUTIFUL!
Nov 12- received court date of Dec 3
Nov 25 - received first "official" update on Ellie from AWAA - she's smiling & healthy & drop dead GORGEOUS!!!
Dec 3 - WE PASS COURT!!!!
Dec 21- Concrete travel dates - Jan 15-23
Dec 22 - bought plane tickets - $3244 for Matt & Jill
Jan 13 - paid in country travel fees $3877 for 5 of us
Jan 15 - left Spokane for Addis Ababa, ET
Jan 18 - Metcha Day
Jan 19 - Gotcha Day
Jan 20 - Embassy Day. $400 for her visa.
Jan 23 - HOME!
Grand Total so far: $26,581
Dec 10, 08 - Sent first program payment fee of $1350 to AWAA.
Dec 22, 08 - Accepted into the Ethiopia Program at AWAA.
Jan 7, 09 - Requested birth certificates & marriage certificate....sent $60 (? can't remember exact amt!) to State of Wa & Or for these documents.
Jan 15, 09 - paid $95 for the online Hague Compliance training
Jan 21, 09 - Matt & Jill physicals and fingerprinting...$20 for fingerprints....sent fingerprints with $30 to FBI for
background check.
Jan 21, 09 - TB test for everyone :) yeah! $16 each.
Feb 18, 09 - sent $1800 for homestudy & $1050 for post adoption reports.
Feb 19, 09 - first meeting with the social worker doing the homestudy
Feb 23, 09 - Jill's 1:1 interview with social worker for homestudy
Mar 1, 09 - Matt's 1:1 interview with social worker & home inspection for homestudy
Mar 2, 09 - sent $30 to California for the background check for the homestudy
April 16, 09 - final meeting with social worker for completion of homestudy
April 22, 09 - over-nighted I600A paperwork to social worker who included notarized copy of HOMESTUDY (it's DONE!!!) and over-nighted I600A & Homestudy to USCIS - with $870
Apr 30,09 - had all paperwork notarized - for FREE thanks SUSIE! Over-nighted certification paperwork to Olympia with $30.
May 1, 09 - received notification from USCIS that they'd rcvd our paperwork and would be sending us our fingerprinting appt in the next few days!!!!
May 3 - paid $70 for our home study social workers travel expenses.
May 4 - we have our fingerprinting appointment!!! It's set for May 27th....but I'm hoping to see if we can get in earlier - of course!
May 5 - no chance to get an earlier fingerprinting appt :(
May 7 - WOW! Our paperwork came back from Olympia already!!! Now we're just waiting on the I-171!
May 27 - Fingerprints DONE!!!
June 2 - Matt's fingerprints didn't go thru, he has to go back and have them redone :(
June 4 - Matt's fingerprints are redone - pray they go thru this time!!!
June 18 - spent $20 and 3o minutes making 3 copies of the Dossier
June 20 - received our I-171H
June 22 - overnighted Dossier to AWAA with $7500...of which $1000 will be refunded when we do our 3, 6, and 12 month post-placement visits
June 26 - DTE!!!
July 2 - Dossier arrives in Addis Ababa, ET
July 26 - 1 month DTE
Aug 24 - Amend request to include HIV+ child
Aug 26 - 2 months DTE
Sep 16 - Sent $450 to AWAA to update Home study to include HIV+
Sep 26 - 3 months DTE
Oct 6 - Referral Call
Oct 8- Sent in referral acceptance & $5435
Nov 11 - received first pics of Ellie since her referral!!! She is sooooo BEAUTIFUL!
Nov 12- received court date of Dec 3
Nov 25 - received first "official" update on Ellie from AWAA - she's smiling & healthy & drop dead GORGEOUS!!!
Dec 3 - WE PASS COURT!!!!
Dec 21- Concrete travel dates - Jan 15-23
Dec 22 - bought plane tickets - $3244 for Matt & Jill
Jan 13 - paid in country travel fees $3877 for 5 of us
Jan 15 - left Spokane for Addis Ababa, ET
Jan 18 - Metcha Day
Jan 19 - Gotcha Day
Jan 20 - Embassy Day. $400 for her visa.
Jan 23 - HOME!
Grand Total so far: $26,581
About Me
- Jill
- Colfax, Washington Wife to Matt for 16 adventure filled years. Mom to 4 fantastic boys & one fabulous little girl! Owner of an amazing business that allows me lots of girl time & a chance to decide when that girl time is :) Lover of all things sparkly, fun, loud, and shouter from the mountain tops of the JOY OF ADOPTION!
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